Strive not to gossip and not to entertain gossip. You take in the negativity when you are hearing someone talk poorly of another person. It isn't something you realize until you cut the gossiping from your life. I wanted to have a healthier me and as a challenge in the process, I asked myself what… Continue reading 5 of My Biggies To Lead a Happier Life, Improve Self-Love, and Keep Positive Relationships!
DIVORCE RATES are through the roof with relationships failing. We all have seen it happen...Maybe it was a broken hearted friend that you seen in her white gown a couple yrs before with a glimmer in her eyes... Possibly though we gave our all, to feel heartbroken ourselves...It is a feeling like no other around… Continue reading Can You Make Relationships Last like the Older Generations did?
Dating after a major heartbreak can be scary! I personally am at this very point myself. It's been three years since I ended a very long relationship with a man I would of spent my life with if he would of loved me right . After three years of healing and growing as a person… Continue reading Does and Don’ts to Dating Again after a Heartbreak!
I remember as a foster child, foster parents would get these packets or stacks of part facts, and part opinion, about us. It was like a bible to some on how they viewed these. I would be introduced by reasons I became a ward of the state. It would follow the introduction with a list… Continue reading What is a Tortured Soul (part two)
Unwilling to take risk Overwhelmed with fears Recluse /keeps to themselves Attention hungry Clingy Jealous acting Without prompt lacks trust Controlling Needy Distant Fear to commit Promiscuous Secretive Self destructive Eager to push limits or boundaries Wreck- less acting Anxious Depressed Hot cold acting OCD /PTSD / depression diagnosis Confusion on boundaries Extreme strict boundaries… Continue reading 25 Signs Someone Had a Traumatic Childhood!
How our friends and family see our relationship and our mate can influence how we do as well...We feel more comfortable and confident with our Lovers when they're accepted by our loved ones. Sometimes, men and women let their friends or family have too much information,input,and weight on how we see things or deal with… Continue reading 12 Ways We Destroy Potentially Great Relationships!
Why was you dumped? Ghosted? What will make you less dumpable? More datable? SECRETS INSIDE HERE
What can you do to be more datable? & Less dumpable?? Why have you been cheated, ghosted,and left? Secrets within.
I'm a thirty something year old woman with a secretive hopeless romantic side..Yet, I also am jaded ....and I'm diagnosed with an attachment disorder, which basically states I'm distant and avoidant. This doesn't just apply to dating but also family & friends . People without this battle, probably have no idea the lengths I take… Continue reading What is a Tortured Soul?
Baby girl, I'm just a woman who has experienced pain deeper than I'd like to admit. I'm an amazing catch with poor choices in the men I date. I'm complex and I'm guarded yet I'm also capable of love so deep,most people never ever get in life. I recognize the rare hearts like my own.… Continue reading Letter for a Broken Girl: As You Destroy Him to His Core, You Destroy You.
You lay in bed for hours replaying every bittersweet memory and just feel so lost. As your mind wonders and the weeks go by, you catch yourself a bit angry over the ways you too were neglected in this relationship you treasure(d). You look in the mirror and can't ever recognize that person looking back… Continue reading Coping With Divorce Project 101 (for the courageous ones)